Severe Blusher!



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 Post subject: Severe Blusher!
PostPosted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 11:52 pm 
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I know this probably sounds ridiculous but in any social situations I am a severe blusher :oops: ...Bright red tomato face where people say"OMG why are you so red?"...This has been crippling me and my game and makes me anxious in any social situations whatsoever (even with family sometimes)....I know there could be worse things than my face getting red, but it turns an obvious beat red color and only gets worse when people point it out. Anyone else deal with this, conquered it or just plain old barrel through it?
Any advice for getting past this?


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 Post subject: Re: Severe Blusher!
PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:02 pm 
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Let me guess, after you feel your cheeks start burning all you want to do is hide your face and hide. So instead of running for cover you clam up as people laugh at you.

I had that problem for years. I still tend to blush when I am excited, angry or embarrassed. The key to overcoming this is embracing it fully and completely. Nowadays, there is even a sense of disappointment when I blush and no one calls me out on it, since I came up with dozens of jokes/routines on the subject matter.
Oh! And guess what! Some girls even like it especially if they tend to blush as well.

The bottom line is you can play it up as one of your strengths rather than weaknesses. After all, what wins them over in the end is your personality.

Hope this helps!
Al


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 Post subject: Re: Severe Blusher!
PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:11 pm 
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Google "How to stop blushing"


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 Post subject: Re: Severe Blusher!
PostPosted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 4:22 pm 
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The key to overcoming this is embracing it fully and completely.
Absolutely without question, always use things you have to your advantage. Don't shy away from that, just say something smart or rather something funny about it. It's also a way to build convo.

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