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PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 2:06 am 
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I met a British girl, she thought i was good looking so we hangout the first day she invited to me her house and we just talked
before leaving she hugged me and kissed me on my neck .

the next day also she took me to her room after a while we made out i was funny,playful after a while she made out with me in her bed
then we stopped and i decided to leave before leaving also she looked happy and kissed me good night intimately but after that night its all changed.
i don't know what happened?

She doesn't call, chat or reply. she ignores me even if she passes by me and its been 3 days we haven't had a good conversation. she says she is tired from work and she will reply when she get time at first

but now since past three days nothing. what would be wrong?

help me to get her talk to me again!! or help me so that it would not happen again.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 2:13 am 
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help me come on!!!!!


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 19, 2013 5:19 pm 
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Sounds like you only want advice because you want that temporary happiness to turn into long-lasting satisfaction, which the average guy would get from a 'girlfriend' or 'friends-with-benefits'

She doesn't sound like either of those.

You both sound like emotionally unstable opportunist. There's no advice or help to give unless it's from a professional, such as an actual PUA and/or therapist.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:34 am 
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truth be told, it sounded like she wanted you to want her. and if you called and texted frequently she got the desired effect. freeze out in my opinion.

It could also be she wanted you to escalate more when you where in the bed. and leaving her high and dry she decided to look elsewhere.

freeze out in my opinion, if she does call and your busy invite her along dont make seeing her again about her. she lost that right by not responding to you. she has to earn you back


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:07 am 
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Just leave it dude, move on, you are a guy, and you have nothing to loose, unless you are falling for her. Are you falling for her? If so, you really need to talk to her, go to her house, and ask just few hours, just have a talk. If not, then, that would not be a problem.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:22 am 
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Crappy advice for the most part.

Truth is, no one here can tell you what you did wrong, and no one can tell you how she is based on those few lines you wrote. All you can do is freeze her out.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 10:04 am 
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You were in her room, making out. Why didn't you bang her?

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:34 am 
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help me come on!!!!!
Beast mode. You could have pulled. It didn't happen not once but twice. It sounds like she lost interest when you didn't make the move but, let her be the man in the relationship setting the pace. Oh well. Focus on abundance and meet other girls.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 11:33 pm 
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Yeah it seems she wanted you to "push" for sex, you just stopped? really? did you want more? Did you push?

PLEASE BE CLEAR NOT RAPE! just push, sometimes they just need a little coercion, because they want to but they are "nice girls". If they say no, then OK it's no. Often though they just nee a little justification (many posts on this subject).

And here lies your dilemma she wanted sex you didn't close so you are now uninteresting.

Sucks, you have no ties social or otherwise, let it go. DON'T LET HER GET INTO YOUR HEAD! DO NOT GET ONE-ITIS. Move on, seriously you don't know her, why let her into your head?


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 04, 2013 12:14 am 
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Yeah it seems she wanted you to "push" for sex, you just stopped? really? did you want more? Did you push?

PLEASE BE CLEAR NOT RAPE! just push, sometimes they just need a little coercion, because they want to but they are "nice girls". If they say no, then OK it's no. Often though they just nee a little justification (many posts on this subject).

And here lies your dilemma she wanted sex you didn't close so you are now uninteresting.

Sucks, you have no ties social or otherwise, let it go. DON'T LET HER GET INTO YOUR HEAD! DO NOT GET ONE-ITIS. Move on, seriously you don't know her, why let her into your head?
I think beast mode is the solution.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TF_6Xqspn-o

You at least had a learning experience to go by.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 04, 2013 12:44 am 
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Interesting vid MeetJoeBlack it seems, however, structured towards a certain type of girl/woman. Brittish girl is Brittish (I.E. repressed sexual urges) so open sexual explicitness behavior may be a turn off. In the bedroom though anything goes.

The beast routine may work wonders with "easy" girls. I don't think you can build a relationship off it, if that is what you want.

Still I like the aggressive "this is what I want" routine.


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Interesting vid MeetJoeBlack it seems, however, structured towards a certain type of girl/woman. Brittish girl is Brittish (I.E. repressed sexual urges) so open sexual explicitness behavior may be a turn off. In the bedroom though anything goes.

The beast routine may work wonders with "easy" girls. I don't think you can build a relationship off it, if that is what you want.

Still I like the aggressive "this is what I want" routine.
What do I know? I am new here. I am still learning but, the girl had hicky marks on her neck so, she wasn't exactly classy. She likely fucked that guy. Who else? East mode was an option.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?hl=en&clie ... nomobile=1


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