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PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:31 am 
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I just got reminded of something.
Im just starting this new job and my nerves have been going crazy killing me no stop, which is strange for a guy like me because i dont useaully get nervous. But this job for me has to go right, its now or never, sink or swim.
This woman once told me that 'the more importance we put on something, the more nervous we get'. until heard that, i did'nt understand why we get nervous.

So from now im not going to put any importance on a girl, that way i will control my nerves.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 7:31 am 
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its all in the mind, just keep the mindset that it is no big deal, try having several targets in the works so if one doesnt work you have a backup

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 7:40 pm 
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the more importance we put on something, the more nervous we get'
Too right, and that is what makes us look fuckin' pathetic when we're trying so hard not to be.

It also reminds of a quote I heard on a sports program.

"To be a champion you must try to play (insert sport of choice) as if it means nothing, when in fact, it means everything."

That applies, to women, work:- hell everything!


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