Hello guys,i wanted to ask something about sexual anxiety.I have girl friends and i want to try something with them but im afraid,actually i wanted to kino escalate but im scared,i dont know why but i just cant do anything and i want to obviously,so im asking you how can i kino escalate with them?

Real men aren't scared of women. I don't mean that as an insult. I mean that as a way to describe what your problem is.

When you are scared, you don't project confidence. Without confidence, you either fail to act, or you act creepy.

I can explain to you how to be a man, but I can't be a man for you.

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Thanks for the reply,actually i am very confident,girls like my and i like them ,but i am scared inside of me when im with the girl i like,i dont show that(that im scared), i act normally,talk normally and everything,but i dont know what to say or do.I say some random things and thats all.I would like to get deeper connection with a girl and i want her to be attracted to me.If you could give me some tips i would appreciate that... and thanks again.

You have what's called weak inner game. You look cool, sound cool, but inside you are a scared little boy. Trust me, this will permeate outwards if it hasn't already. Women will soon realize you don't have good game and you won't get far with them.

You need to develop your game and build your confidence. Success breeds confidence, confidence breeds strong inner game, and strong inner game gets you breeding with women.

There is no substitute for learning pickup, learning routines, and practicing them on sets by going sarging. There's nothing magical you can say to women, no special way of touching them. Sure, there are kino techniques, but again, you need to read up on that on your own and develop your own unique innner pua.

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Thanks man,i am going to improve my inner game..and you are right,girls always realize that i dont have good game so i always end up as their friend.Thanks again

I got a feeling you take this too seriously.

If I were to put a gun to your head and say that you will die if you fail to kino escalate with a girl. Would you do it?
My guess is yes. Will it be fun for both of you? Not likely.

Since you probably know the strategy behind kino escalation, I won't waste your time with it.

However, think if it as a game. A playful interaction. High five, play with her ring. Steal her ring. Tease her with it. After she wrestles you for it, put it back on her finger (or your pinkie if it fits. "Doesn't it look fabulous on me?").

More physical you are, the easier it gets. She will give you you your "go ahead" sign or a "red flag".

Bottom line is, as long as she knows it is NOT your intent to make her feel uncomfortable, she will be very forgiving, even if you do "cross the line".

I'll get off my soap box. Hope this helps!

Al

Agreed afcAl. Making it playful and treating it as a game is one of the biggest things I learned to get more success. I had one particular evening with a girl where I sort of forgot about the whole pick up thing, and half way through the evening I suddenly became aware that I was really enjoying the "flirting". Nowadays, I enjoy that almost as much as the result. It's fun, it's flirty, it's lighthearted. I'm enjoying myself. If I get laid at the end of it, superb. If not, I've still had a good time!

Really insult man. A man never afraid of women. Last night my friend enjoy with 5 women :p ahh Do you believe??

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