Ok so this is my story, im a 21 year old above avrage looking guy, im 6,5ft tall and muscular, the thing is im so fu**ing shy its ridicilous. Like i cant even keep eye contact with a girl if she is just walking my way, for example if i see an attractive girl walking my way i immediately feel my heart racing and i get nervous, and as soon as she gives me eye contact i look away in a heartbeat,

I know im supposed to hold eye contact and smile but i just cant, smiling feels awkward, i dont want her to think of me as a creep or anything. same with eyecontact


So ye im pretty desperate, i havent had a girlfriend in 3 years and really need to boost my confidence as soon as possible,

I also feel that girls feel intimidated by me, since im very tall and pretty muscular

Be a creep. Its all in your head. Creep on that girl and you will get a smile. You will make her day you will be the best part of her day. Whats the worst she will do? She might say hi but that can be scary too. Girls love the attention. the ones that don't you do not even want to waste your time on. Its easy on the street harder in a bar. In a bar or club they got there defenses up. Oh next time your walking one way and a cute girl is going the other way. Just for shits and giggles say High Five and go for a high 5 an if shes cool she will high 5 you back. You just keep walking after slapping hands. don't even look back. When It works its like magic.

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Thank you for the tip, il definetly try the high-5

What about smiling ? like how much should you smile, or do you even have to smile ?

im feeling pretty uncomfortable smiling all the time

High fived, not so much. I saw this dude at the club the other night trying to high five the gogo dancers and they just ignored him and left him hanging. That really fucked up his social value in the eyes of everyone who saw him holding his hand up desperately seeking validation and getting shut down.

Developing inner game will cure you of your shyness. Yes, smile and make eye contact, and be very cognizant of that whenever you are around women.

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