Lack of Confidence



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2012 2:52 am 
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Yesterday (9/15 - Saturday) a friend of mine called me for a coffee around 9pm with some friends (a couple, 2 guys, a unknown gal, he and me) and after that go to some nightclub for a drink. The SPAM was very good at the cafeteria and the interactivity between us was good as well.

First, we went go a club with Greek Live Music (we call this "bouzoukia") just to have one drink to get warmed up. After that, we went to a night club. Until there I was very confident and with a very high self-esteem. Plus, my intuition was "talking" to me all the time about how to behave and to do things (like approaches, talk to a girl and so on). By the way, it happens to me very often. Usually my intuition is in a high level but today I was very impressed because I've never felt like that before (and I'll never forget that feeling :) ). It was in a SUPER-HIGH LEVEL. Didn't expect this :)

A little bit later, I spot a 3-set next to me - and there was my intuition again talking to me. At some point, it said: "Open them. Ask them their opinion about men's dressing (t-shirt vs shirt)". I know, I should follow the 3-sec-rule but I didn't. I wasn't confident anymore for any particular reason. After a few minutes, it talked to me again and said: "Start dancing and without any hesitation go and open them. Go!". I did start dancing and after a few seconds when I started to feel relaxed and was ready to go, BUT... I didn't again.

I was so curious about that. It is the second time it happened to me. How come? Have no idea :(
Have you guys something to recommend?

Every comment, critic and observation will be accepted and very welcomed! :)

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