Hi everyone out there.
Im 18, started reading up on PU last year and I got really good results.

BUT, I realise after I stopped drinking that much at parties, and started focusing on conversational game rather than dance floor game etc., I have become much less of a "party guy". I'm feeling much more comfortable in the streets (night and day), at cafees, at social gatherings etc.

WHY IS THIS? I want to not just walk around / sit and talk to people most of the night, but have fun at parties (dancing, not giving a damn), but somehow all this PU stuff has made me feel too comfortable in conversational situations, so I'm not having as much fun any longer.

How do I make myself feel more comfortable when dancing? (Funny thing is, I can dance really good.), how do I have more fun during the night and lastly how do you guys usually spend your nights at parties?

I hope this makes sense, if not please ask in depth.
I am grateful for every reply.

It'd be nice to get plastered all the time and be the wild man and the life of the party, but that's not really feasible in the game of pick up. You have to compromise. I'm glad that you stopped drinking, considering that you should'nt have even started for at least three years from now...

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Sorry - I forgot to mention I live in a country where legal drinking age is 16 and most people start at 14/15. It's f***ed up, but that's fact, so not drinking is not even normal for people yonger than me.

To your reply, I think it's possible to do both.