That was one hard fall.



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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 7:14 pm 
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Last year I was the new kid. Everyone loved me and i was attractive.

Later on, I got real arrogant and lost the respect of almost everyone.
Then I started acting like a bad boy so things got a little worse.

Then i became an attention whore by second semester.

And in the end, Some people dont even remember my name. However, the only thing i got that was better than all those losers was my best friend.

What can i do to survive the last year without being an attention whore?[/code]

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 10:21 pm 
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You should seriously analyse what you do and its consequences...

Either you ego is big enough and you continue, and you'll probably feel lonely a good amount of time, either you want some social life, friendship, etc, and should adjust your behavior accordingly and be less selfish and more empathic with people, trying to understand how they feel and why.

If you consider changing, you can also change you appearance (haircut, style, etc) at the same time. That will help you to act differently and will make people reconsider their opinion about you (associating the physical changes to other changes).


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2012 11:25 pm 
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I dunno. I always thought of enpathy as being too nice. guess i was kidding myself.

What can i do to start making changes? Like small things i could do?

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2012 4:30 pm 
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It worked. Thanks a lot man!

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