Hey guys, I'm new to the forum, I've just got into PUA stuff recently, so I have a few questions.

I read MM recently, and, while I understand the concept and everything, so after reading, I tried to go out and try opening, but then I found out I have debiliating AA. Since I can remember, I've been shy and lately I've been trying to break out of my shell, but I could never imagine it could be that hard.

The thing is, what has happened to me before is that my voice used to tremble around the girls I didn't know. So I think a lot of my AA comes from fear that it's going to happen again, which I really wouldn't like to happen, since I get embarased easily.

So, my question is, can asking HBs for simple things like time and directions help easing into real opening. Also, is there anything you would suggest to do?

Also, walking up to a girl in the middle of the day and asking for a friend's relationship opinion sounds so unnatural to me, so about this, is this just me or ... ?

Thanks in advance guys

I've met gorgeous, great women at store counters, waitresses, and in shops just by saying, "You look like you're ready to close out your shift and head home."

"OMG! You're so right. Does it show?" they respond, and you are off and running. You don't have to bring some dumbass pick up line or anything extraneous to use the situation at hand.
Great place to start, little option for rejection! and every positive response is a nice ego boost!

Who knows even get ballzy enough to carry it further!

Hope this helps Bro!

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Actually, it does, thanks.

I wanted to be sure that it can help before going into a street like an idiot and asking girls for directions to places I know locations of.

You have the upper hand! they don't know you know!

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I don't think "asking women for time or directions" will work for you.

I tried it, but I always struggled to continue the conversation to a more sexual.

I mean, what was I suppose to do?

Ask her for time - and then ask her out?

The only real technique that worked and eliminated my approach anxiety was a technique called the mind reader.

I think you can still get it at www.volcanoconfidence.com

Anyways, good luck with your approach anxiety.

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Gum opener. Just ask for a piece of gum.

You can bail at any point so its low pressure for both of you. What I like about it is that you can stay in the set for a minute or two under the auspices of a guy needing gum, lol. And you can BS her and tell her you've asked ten people for gum and no one has any, or if she says she doesn't have any then ask her why she doesn't carry gum? It's not hard to sit there and talk about bubble gum. If she has any personality at all she'll laugh or show some sort of IOI. If she's worthless she'll clam up and give you the fuck off vibe and you'll be glad you didn't waste that set on some opinion opener that you would've fucked up anyway and gotten blown out faster on. Try it, or don't.

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Opening with something simple like directions is F***ing lame, i never do it, if a girl asks me 4 something at work, on a neutral level i never escalate or continue conversation,

its just lame.

The point of asking directions is not to meet women to stick your dick in. The point is to make you comfortable with having a simple conversation with a stranger. How could you ever hope to fuck a girl if you can't even ask her for directions?

So start with guys if you think that's easier. Who knows, you might make a friend or two along the way.

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