i really have no problem meeting new girls and getting to know them and approaching them. so i was just chilling at my friends apartment and at the door there was this girl i saw at the front door. the girl is the one i got rejected from her at the club and i was shock i was suspecting not to see her again. so i just sat their silence and what made it worse was there were couple of girls i know from high school came by and chill with us. i didnt want to see them again because they already know i was the biggest wierdo back in high school. the girls that i know just brings back some bad memories. i already put the bad past behind and started a new life. i just want to meet new girls not girls that i know in the past because it just feels wierd hanging out with them. so how can i deal with it?

Go where girls hang out and go meet them.

Simple.

Take up some hobbies like dancing or yoga...plenty of girls, and you're building skills that girls find attractive. It's like a double whammy!

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It's only weird because you make it weird. I'm in a situation which should be considered weird by most people you would ask. Let me draw this to you.

We broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago. We lived together in the dormitory in one room. Now because of the lack of spaces I couldn't move elsewhere, just the adjecent room. But wait, it's not over yet. I'm actually in a good relationship with her, sort of friends. Not only that, I regularly meet the guy with whom she cheated on me once. I also don't have any problem with him. The three of us (and other friends) occasionally talk together on the balcony, and the situation is anything but awkward. We're just having a good time, all because we want to. Of course there are conditions of this which are the following:

a) My ex always kept a good relationship with her exes, and this does not exclude me.

b) I also have a habit of keeping in touch with my exes. Just because a relationship doesn't work, that doesn't mean I have to throw that person away from my life.

c) I have a generally friendly frame when talking with them, I never abuse the past or start acting, let alone feel like I'm jelous.

Now back to your situation. You know you've changed. Why do you worry about your past self they'd known instead of introducing them the NEW you? I used to be a weirdo too. Most of those people in my life have become friends of mine now that they see that I've become a social and fun person.

Also... you can also go out to clubs or take up hobbies to meet new people, which is always a good idea.

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