I have very big promblem, when i try to strike conversation with a girl I really like. As example girl we been going to same school 10 years ago but we dont know each other, or the girl we are working in same building.
Becouse I know I go completely blank, usually i prepare some short blueprint for conversation.
And then interesting part starting, I see she's coming, i'm going blank no matter my blueprints, i feeling my throat is closing... and my hands starting to SHAKE... Its not posible for me to do anything at that moment, If i could try to simulate my voice or go natural with lines, my hands anyway would start to SHAKE...
Its never happens with a girls I see first time and I dont care about them, no matter looks...
What should I do? Just forget about them, and find nameless pussy? I dont think thats an option.
Today is exactly 1,5 month while i tried at least to say hi to one girl. She coming with me EVERY day on same train to work. I came to few situations then i physicly aproached her but couldnt do verbaly becouse all my minds was on my shaking hands... now shes thinks im weird, and avoiding eye contact (thats probably the only thing what im still able to keep). Is it still posible to fix situation without weirdo and stalker reputation...?
Im sorry for my english, becouse thats not my native language... and thanks for all problem solutions.

Thats just AA (Approach Anxiety) and there are hundreds of topics on this forum that can provide you some ways of working through it. Also remember that its completely natural so don't beat yourself up for it.

My best advise is to think about how you act with your friends and family. I bet your not mapping out those conversations and they probably go a lot smoother. Try and integrate more of that relaxed you into into these interactions and do your best to detach yourself from the outcome.

If you get blown out or weird her out remember that shes not rejecting you but the techniques you used.

Good luck!

I think everything will be okay!