Hi there!

I have a big problem and I dont know how to handle it. Every time I want to approach a girl, my mind is going crazy on me. It is getting easier and I try not to otherthink a situation but there is allways that smal part in me that is blocked.

I dont know how to explain it but I give it a try.
When I see a girl I want to talk with, I'm thinking 20 steps ahead.. And it allways leads to the question: "What if she is the right girl?" I'am raising 4 out of 5 girls on that plattform: She is the right one.
The strange thing about that is sometimes I think: "Maybe she is, maybe she's not" but it's a smal part in my head and I dont listen it.

How to overcome this?

hey man we seem to be in the same boat. ive done some research on the topic and i ahve a few links that can help, i hope you use them

- http://www.social-anxiety-shyness-info. ... nality.htm
-http://shyness-social-anxiety.com/conve ... xiety.html
- http://shyness-social-anxiety.com/conve ... about.html

[quote="desertEagle"]hey man we seem to be in the same boat. ive done some research on the topic and i ahve a few links that can help, i hope you use them


Brilliant post - not sure about other guys on here but I have this problem and i couldn't quit put my finger on what was making feel awquard...this just nailed it and I'll be putting this advice into practice tonight.

Thanks