There is this girl who I have known for just over a year. I only see her once every 3 months, or so as I know through my friends work colleagues. I think she could like me. I don't know when I am going to see her again, and I don't have her number. I am thinking about sending her message on facebook, but don't want to mess it up by giving myself away that I like her. I do really like this girl, I am not here seeking advice just so I can fuck her, so it is important I play this right.

No matter what I think of writing it has high risk of her not responding. If I could see her in person it would allot easier.

What would you write in a message on facebook?

The fact that you really want to play this right is probably the thing that is standing in your way. You could simply say Hi. Maybe you guys share inside jokes that you can use. I can't tell you exactly what to say here. I think no one can.

And if she doesn't respond then you know where you stand. But she sure as hell isn't going to respond if you don't say anything at all.

Send a message telling her exactly what you thought about her when you first saw her and try to be descriptive and tell her your interested in her sexually/romantically. Who the fuck cares if you "mess this up", theres a billion more girls out there for you who are just as good if not better than she is. If you go after her with that kinda scarcity mindset you've already lost, trust me.

sorry for being rude, but da fuq!? never write to her that you are in love with her and such things, especially not when you haven't even talked to her, you would come out as the biggest creeper/stalker ever! talk to her irl, and make sure to not sound like a stalker!

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