I'm always intimidated by attractive girls



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 2:40 pm 
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I know one of the key things in pick up is to always maintain a carefree attitude and not give a damn.

When I'm interacting with really attractive girls I always make sure to put on a carefree attitude on the exterior, but deep inside I can't help but always feel really intimidated and quite nervous.

How do I overcome this feeling of intimidation?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 3:07 pm 
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Something I used that helps is "sometimes even the most seemingly perfect girls have the most insecurities." That really is true, these girls are so attractive because they find beauty to be such an important aspect of life.

Try to talk about things you're really passionate about to get your mind off their physical appearance and on to something you enjoy.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 10, 2012 8:01 am 
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jamiesand,

The intimidation you mention is not caused by the pretty girls, it's caused by one or several limiting beliefs you have. If you find the beliefs that are causing the intimidation and eliminate all of them, the intimidation will disappear.

I wrote a post about the topic of limiting beliefs if you're interested in reading it: who-wants-to-get-rid-of-approach-anxiety-vt126937.html


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