So, im 24 and I just got myself a brand spanking new job, in fact it's the start of my career and im very happy. Things are moving forward and I have a new confidence and self-belief back after being unemployed and kind down for a while.

I still live at home but im looking to move out. I find it quite embarrassing if the subject is raised as it's a major DLV. In fact, it's probably the main reason I get analysis paralysis because a mile down the road im thinking "I can't even have sex with her unless she also has her own place!".

Can you game well with such a temporary problem? And what 'turn of phrases" might one employ to still maintain a DHV while in a set or a single set?

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My thought on this one is if you have something that you're insecure about instead of trying to hide it.. feature it. Make it part of your game. If you aren't in a living situation that has the necessary element of privacy... talk about it as if it's GREAT and normal, not embarrassing. It is a limiting belief that you can't get laid without having your own place. You are using it as your excuse for not putting yourself out there. I can't tell you how many road trips I've been on with my friend Sunny where we didn't get a hotel room.. we went to the bar and spent the night at some chicks house.. then met up again the next morning to continue on our journey.. it's common man.

Re-frame your nights out as if you're on a roadtrip looking for a place to stay.. hell even tell people your on a road trip. You will find women who want one night stand/ discrete sex with someone they don't have to see again or tell their friends about. Also common.

And, If you want to get adventurous.. I'm sure there are plenty of field reports on here of guys laying down in cars or parks.. fuck it.

Cheers.

ps. If you're looking for more than just sexual encounters... showing the women that you're passionate and love your new job is attractive enough for women to ignore that fact the you live at home. Especially if its realistically temporary. These women aren't going to sleep with you because of where you live anyway.. they do it because of who YOU are.

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Ya man, I wouldn't sweat it to much.... I just started a new job like 8 months ago cause my last job screwed me and now I'm in the process of losing my house. So in 2weeks ill be back at my moms until I find a new place to stay... These things happen, no sense getting upset or letting it hold you back, just roll with the punches and you'll be fine.

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Oh man ... is this really such a big issue ? Why do you even care about this ? You think that you have to be perfect to score girls ? If a guy goes up to a girl and this girls only hears DHV's from him, what do you think that she will think ? She will probably think he is lying and that he is just trying to impress her to get laid. If you have a weak point, just admit it. You have to be really strong and sure about yourself to admit weak points about yourself. And by the way, it will make your other DHV's stronger because she will believe them. Just be honest about why you still live at home. You live at home because you just finished school, recently started working but you are looking some nice place to live but you haven't found it yet.