Laziness or AA?



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 Post subject: Laziness or AA?
PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2011 9:03 pm 
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Hi.

This might be a long post so I'm thankful for all the help I get.
I'm 17 so I can't go to clubs or bars. Me and my friend solved this by going to home parties since we were 16 and one or two local ''dances''.
We have opened a few sets and most of them went really well. However, we never found the girls we opened interesting enough to #-close.


Both of us have been training seriously for about a year now, which means none of us have been going to parties. The last thing we went to was a party/get-together with some close friends in July. Where we decided not to do any routines.

So now I've decided to start day gaming solo. My friend does not want to daygame and wants instead to wait until we are 18 (6 months for him, 3 for me) so we can go night gaming. So I've lost my wing when it comes to daygame.


But I can't get myself to get out of my house. I don't know what it is. If its AA or just laziness. For the past year I've been doing the same routine everyday. I go to school, come home, train and then just sit at my computer.
Also, last year I made a half-assed promise to myself about daygaming, but this year I'm going all in.

When I sit at home and think ''I could go downtown and try some daygaming'' I get all sorts of excuses in my head ''Then I'd have to get up, get ready, wait for the bus''
''It's cold outside'' etc.
I used to struggle with low confidence for a while, but I've realized I'm awesome.
I know I can do anything.
But daygaming kind of scares me. I have AA before I've even left my house! :P I never had AA when me and my wing went to parties, but maybe that's because of the alcohol, my wing or a mixture of both.

Since it's winter, there are not many people outside downtown. Therefore I would have to move my game indoors. But the thing with our malls is that people come here to get stuff, then leave. They don't spend half the day here with their friends here, like I see in American movies. Not sure if that's what Americans do but it's all I have to use as an example.
Thats one of my other excuses :P

Please help me!! I have no idea where to start with this problem!

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 20, 2011 9:06 pm 
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stop looking at porn on your pc and jacking off.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:49 pm 
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Wow cold boy
maybe you can start checking out the physical aspects of the ladies you see.
And i mean anywhere.
You cant go to clubs cause ur too young. Forget clubs. Day game is best.
Really. its better to be too young than too old.
seems to me you are way too much in your head.
Cold boy - dont worry keep reading these posts and PRACTICE: Like ask 22 babes where Charing cross street is or whatever.
One thing you will clearly notice: Babes love to be approached.
Remember you are doing them a favor not the other way around.
Lighten up


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