have to thank the guys! today i was in starbucks and saw a totally hot girl! would never have approached a complete stranger like that before but it just so happend i was on the internet at the time. I went onto PUA CHAT and anked the guys for an opener.

to be honest i didn't use any of their openers, however the quick chat gave me the confidence to go over. they made me realize that not going over would be a lost opportunity, a lost game if you like!

I simply turned and introduced myself, she seemed shocked that i had the confidence to do so (and possible a bit impressed!). To cut a long story short, I had great fun and arranged to meet again!

so TOP TIP, when in trouble consult likeminded people!

Nice man! It's an amazing feeling when it all works out, Soooooooooo rewarding

Yeah you gain a bit of confidence when you read this stuff but it kinda fades away when you are out there. Having your laptop and some pua buddies on hand in the heat of the moment is useful haha good job!

Sounds like you're on the positivity train now, and once you're on that, don't ever get off, you can always stay on it, for the rest of your life.