Alright, just to get you guys to catch up to speed.
I'm a twenty-something who came from a "traumatic" experience with a one-itis back in college. This caused my social life to go into a downward spiral, and after that moment, I became socially awkward. But, the good side to that event was the very same event that got me into the game. I had to test the water with various theories like MM, Cocky Comedy and etc. It got my confidence a bit with going out and trying to meet people and all. I do meet HB's, but still I wasn't able to apply those principles as I went out. I still was a wallflower and I couldn't seem to close the deal.

Years passed and we go to 2011 where I am abit comfortable talking to people with the Direct Approach and with Indirect Approach, though I need more confidence up on other aspects.

Another thing is that I usually do solo game which I hard for me, but I believed that practicing solo game would improve my game along with wingman game
but it's difficult.

But I need more words of confidence and some advice to improve my game.

Thanks guys.

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In success and assertiveness there are two people: the one who embraces assertiveness and the one who suppresses his assertive nature. The one who embraces what he wants to do is the man who is more successful.

I think it's great you are out there even if it means going solo pushing your limits and trying to meet women! You definitely have heart and determination and that's what it takes to succeed out there. I had to go out alone for the longest time cause I didn't have wings and it made me a lot better at social game working the club talking to the hired guns, bartenders, etc.

I'd like to help you. Where do your sets seem to fall off? What happens? Is it still too hard to approach? Are they not hooking? You run out of stuff to say? Help me out a bit and we'll get you some solid advice to further you along.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Bro, as far as the last conversation I had with a set.

• It's the fear of rejection at the point of approach.
  Running out of things to say during the later part of either A3 or C2

I am able to get the girl to qualify herself and tease her for a bit, though I need some stronger routines to become better in my game.

As I continue to do my approach anxiety exercises (to this day), my eye contact is better when it comes to looking at other people. For me, I realize that confidence in approaching is like a sand castle, where you can build a sand castle as large as you can (approach anxiety exercises that will form your confidence and all), but at the end of the day, the sand castle gets washed up by the sea (when the day ends).

I wanna find a way to reduce if not remove approach anxiety aside from the approach anxiety exercises in the forum.

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In success and assertiveness there are two people: the one who embraces assertiveness and the one who suppresses his assertive nature. The one who embraces what he wants to do is the man who is more successful.

Approaching more and doing warm up approaches help a lot. There is a lot of information about AA or Approach Anxiety is on the forum. Just go to the top of the page and do a search for it.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

be more social and out to have a great night and less on the pickup,talk to everyone.focus on your flirting with women and having fun... moving the interacting foward will be natural if you like the girl and connect not have the pickup needyness.
If your going out solo go out early so that your energy can rise with the enviroment and get comfortable and chat to everyone on the way there, bus driver,bouncer ,bar maid etc even if its just a friendly hello..nothing worse than going to a club lateish when the vibe is already high energy and now you have all this pressure to approach.
before you even get to the club or sarge area give relaxed friendly eyecontact to everyone walking past even if they dont look you were open to saying hi so you win.
have a song in your head and even slightly dance as your walking loseing up.
Im not saying it will be easy if your just getting back into it but i am saying it will be worth it.

buy bootcamps and pua stuff