Ok, I see many of you suffer what i too suffered from until recently. In trying to master your inner game, you went at it under the frame that you were "broken" or some part of you needs to be "fixed"

Ive realized that of course this is not true, we are all wonderful people however we all too want to choose how we act and what we believe, we all want to dictate our own reality. Theres nothing wrong with not appreciating how you currently are and wanting more, its a good thing, your showing how your someone who changes what he doesnt like, who shows ambition.

however, like I did, you may start of wanting to become more confident and end up convinced your "broken" and need lots of inner game techniques and books to help you "fix" yourself. heres how i have found the balance between not "beating yourself up" or focusing on how your broken, ruining self esteem and causing depression, yet still having a healthy habit of assessing and changing the behavior when you want to

Choose to Live Consciously:

We all are in control of our own lives. You can strongly influence everything that happens to you in your life. This power you have may mean you want to make some changes to how you behave. You may want to be a smooth cool guy, who effortlessly chats up beautiful women with amazing stories, or a idol of raw masculinity who captivates just as beautiful women with the way you are so direct and courageous in expressing what you feel.

either way, or any other way, its up to you how you want to behave and what beliefs/reality you want to have. and using affirmations, visualizations to achieve this is great. You must just remember, you are a great amazing guy, always has been and always will been, nothing needs to be fixed, you are simply living how you want to live and behaving however you want to behave.

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees