Hello everybody,

Well I met a girl a couple of months ago and I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I met a girl on a two-hour-journey flight where I got the chance to talk to her for about the whole time. I think we really hit it off. She appeared to me as one of the nicest girl I'd ever met, also she was very interesting and gorgeous. Anyway, I managed to got her mail address and we left at the airport. She lives in the city I was going to. I was too sure about what to do with her mail address when I got back home and a month later found her facebook page and sent her a friend request to which she accepted a month later, i.e. a couples of days ago. My question to you now, what should I say to her on facebook to see her again? I'm planning on going to that city again for a few months in about six months and I'd like to stay in touch with her in mean so she does't forget about and I'd for her to want to meet again when I go there and hopefully get a chance to date her or something. I'm wondering what should I say to her, how am I supposed to keep her interested in talking to me for the next six months, and more importantly and do I get her to want to meet me again by then? I'm kind of a romantic, my goal is not to have sex with her, I just want to get a chance a winning her love in some ways. It might be worth mentionning that I think she has a boyfriend. I don't want to be a homewrecker or anything but I tend to think about my own happinness not someone else's. In any case if I can't find a way to get a chance at dating her, I still would like to become more acquainted with her and maybe become friends with her, have her in my life for a little while and enjoy her presence.
I'm not crazy or anything, I just think I'm a hopeless romantic.

Thank you in advance for any advice you might give me.

I don't want to sound harsh but you put too much importance on one girl (a girl which you've talked to for just 2 hours) and now you want to do anything to have her in your life.
This kind of thinking will basically ruin the chances to be with her (or other girls).
She's just a girl, there are plenty more (even better than her), so why to focus on her?
ITs ok to be a romantic but within limits. Don't have a mindset like in the romantic movies where if the guy pushes and pushes in the end she will see that he is perfect for her and bla bla ...
Focus more on yourself.
From what I see you keep asking for what to say but that comes from inner game.

If I was in your shoes, I would talk to her on mail or FB or whatever when I have the time (but don't waste a lot of time talking to her because you'll get on Friend Zone), meanwhile having a busy and interesting life (doing what you like, sports , etc, dating girls), and when you go there 6 months later just ask her out and see how it goes.

Don't forget the more importance you put on someone the smaller the chances you will be with her and the more you will suffer.

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