And by doing that, you will get rid of social shyness. It is really great

I am a huge fan of going out alone mainly because of my anxiety and I figured to deal with this rather then ignoring it... I was 23 and moved to south florida knowing noone, it was and is an amazing experience, because the way I look at it is eventually all relationships would end and if I am not comfortable being in my own skin (sober) at 23, then what am I gonna do when my future wife dies.. I know thats a little out there and far fetched but is just my opinion.

Thanks!!! this makes no excuses when my buddies cant go out a particular night!! ill just go alone!!

I was about to start a post on this until I saw this thread. What is really motivating me to start sarging alone is ANGER. Anger that I rely so much on my friends to provide for my good time by cooperating and wanting to go out. 9 out of 10 times, they flake or opt to go to the same old local scene. FUCK THAT. Just tonight I was supposed to go to Manhattan with a friend, and he bailed last minute. I was so fucking angry and annoyed at this. . .

FUCK RELYING ON OTHER PEOPLE. Make it so that you are the soul decision maker on the direction of your night, and for that matter, your life. I need to give myself the right kick in the ass and start sarging by myself so i can be in charge of my own destiny. Allow anger of being relient fuel you to do it solo.

Dude, sometimes a 'wing' can be a lot more problems.

I've been with people I met on the lair here who claim they want to 'game', yet when we go out refuse to approach, make excuses, do nothing... they hold me back. Some of them have put me in such bad moods with their excuses I wanted to punch them in the face.

One guy actually told me his approach of a 'set' of guys counted (He wanted to go 1:1). Most people are pathetic losers.

Sometimes it's better to go out alone and you're forced to approach.

Havent gone sarging alone in over a year! The first time I did I got 7 numbers off the street, but I think it was dumb luck.. second time I sarged solo I pretty much didn't talk to anyone. You guys give a bunch of good reasons to sarge alone, so I'mma go do it up tonight! 2.5 hours til bar close, wish me luck!

So fucking glad I sarged solo instead of staying in tonight..

Got very lucky and within ten minutes hooked a set of VERY cute girls! They were a seated three set on the patio, and my opener was something like "if I set my drink on your table, promise you wont drink it while I'm not looking?" I just kept talking afterwards, and spent about an hour with them. Got my target's number, and we have plans to hangout next Wednesday! Got another very cute girl's number outside the bar and she JUST texted me while writing this post!

The night started out slow for ten minutes or so, but once you start talking to every woman you make eye contact with, you eventually (and quickly) WILL find a group of girls who think you're kick ass! And to think, a few hours ago the idea of sarging solo scared the shit out of me!

If you're hesitant to sarge solo, like I was at 9pm tonight, say FUCK IT and go do it! I did get the question of "where are your friends?" and I responded with "they wanted to go to (the bar across the street) because they weren't 'feeling this bar'.. but I have been having an AMAZING time tonight, so I stayed. And I met you guys, so good decision, right?"

Had so much fun tonight, might do some solo day-game tomorrow!

First, think of baby steps ... the hardest part of sarging alone is leaving your house/place. Therefore, have small goals put on shoes, leave house ... go to downtown ... enter club ..

Make is a discipline to open before the venue you are going to go hunting.... peeps in the line or even a pre venue to warm up. But, I usually just warm up with peeps walking around. This will help you a lot even before you enter the club.

I make it a habit to open the peeps in line ... usually goes well ... and you can re open them (normally they re open you if you are cool) later on the night in the venue.

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It's best to go out alone for a while actually ... helps you develop self confidence and sense of pride!

Cheers,

Donston!

Awesome thread!
I recently did some solo weekend trips and that included going out solo as well. I have to admit I was quite a bit awkward at it, but it feels great to have broken the ice! I'm definitely gonna continue with it.

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If you live in a big place post on some forums and find some wings?

That's what I'd do man.

I know the feeling though, sarging alone without much experience can suck haaaarrrrddd.

After reading this thread I decided to go sarging by myself last night. I've being alone at this club before and had the worst nights of my life. But last night was different. I grabbed my balls and walked into that club with a totally different attitude. I told myself that I was the only alpha male there and had to prove it. As soon as I walked in I engaged in a conversation with 2 girls; after a quick chit chat I moved close to the dance floor where a 35ish woman (with a giant boy friend) started flirting with me. Then all of the sudden she approached me and invited me to dance. After the song was over I said thanks and spotted this two chicks sitting on a table. Went to the smoking area and engaged in conversation with two other chicks; at this moment I'm feeling confident as hell so I went back and started talking to the two chicks at the table. I used the "do you believe in magic ???opening" One of them seem very interested while the other one not so much. Unfortunately thanks to the pushy friend I couldn't score because she kept taking away my girl and telling her not to go home with me. At the end I failed but still felt like a winner because I totally lost the fear of approaching women and getting rejected. I hope this help to those Lonely Wolves like me; you are never sarging alone when you feel centered and are full of confidence.