Hello guys!
I really need to change. I'm tired of this.

My situation: I'm almost 20 years old and, when I'm with a girl, I don't know what to do, to say or how to behave. It's a mixture of fear and not knowing the steps to follow. For example, at a party, someone introduces me to her friend . She shows real interest. What should I do to achieve my objective with her that night?

I have a real fear of rejection and of showing girls what I really think ("Damm, you are so hot and I want to fuck you right here and right now"). How can I fix that?

How can I seduce a woman in my daily life?

I've thought in practice. Go for a walk one day and start to approach every girl I see in the street. Then, writte about it to realize my mistakes and try to solve them. I want to enjoy women without fear or nervousness.

Any advice? Can you answer my questions?

Thank you all!

Hello and welcome,

I just would like to say, threads like these are a little lazy. That is like me joining a Pool forum and asking 'Hey, how do i play pool? I don't get how the balls roll with accuracy'

You lack the theory and experience. I have read a lot of material over the years but the beginners... do yourself a favour and read:

Models - Mark Manson , this is kinda the bible on pick up these days since things have evolved from 10 years ago mystery method style

http://amzn.to/1OcUq5U

I would get the audio version if I was you. Goes way more into depth.

Good luck and post some threads AFTER you have approached women with what you've learned from the book. Watch some youtube videos. endless amount of content for you to watch.

If you really want to hit the field, I think just going up to a girl and telling her she is attractive and invite her for a drink with you is a good way to put some hair on your chest and even land some dates based on your fundamentals.

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Being from a social anxiety background myself, and also admittedly having no idea what to do with girls at current, I'll say that book has been hitting on a lot of key points for me. I think the best parts so far have been the chapters on vulnerability and polarization. I have no useful advice, but "Models" definitely seems like a good starting point from my limited experience. I'll probably end up getting the audio version as well.

You're on the right mind path. Yes, SHOW (don't say) what you really think of them. (Standard disclaimer that is nearly driving me to stop posting to this forum: IN A SOCIALLY CALIBRATED WAY, OF COURSE).
As I said you are on the right path. THIS is what is good for the future of your life. DO IT. You will thank yourself for the rest of your life if you ball up and do this. You probably won't though because the percentages say that most guys are too afraid to ever do this, despite the unbelievable benefits and no real risk involved.

It is interesting that most guys exchange contact info with maybe 4 or 5 girls (if that) in their entire lives. Variety is the spice of life.