| I love women. Now this is mostly for me, but I'm hoping if you're reading this you can learn just as much from my excursion tonight as I have.
Interacting with women is a beautiful thing, but you have to do it right. If you have to psyche up yourself for more than 5 seconds to talk to a girl, you're losing your approach. Fuck an opener, just say Hey and think of something later. Today, I learned that this method works. And more importantly that the approach is a BEAUTIFUL THING.
When you approach a girl and her friends directly and head on, with nice body language & a smile... the feeling is orgasmic. Girls smile when you talk to them, they laugh, they ask questions about your life, YOUR LIFE! They want to know this confident man who has the gall to talk to her and her four friends, and you should feel great about this! These girls spent hella time on their makeup, picking the right outfit, and whatever else is in their routine just so YOU could talk to her. No girl wants to be standing on the side of the bar or club all night with their friends. They want interesting, funny, and cool conversation, and you should feel ecstatic about this. After a close you can meet this girl later, explore the inner workings of her mind, traverse through the curves of her sexual body, or hell even have a friend for days, weeks, months, years to come. Possibilities are endless, and even if she rejects you, shes just reject your approach. Its a learning experience, and you'll know what to do in the future. Literally I have beaten myself up more about NOT approaching than an approach that ended in rejection. Because at least in rejection there's lessons, lessons for a better tomorrow, a better approach, and moving me closer to my end goal of becoming a true PUA.
There are guys who go out, hang out with their friends, spend money on drinks, go home, and talk about all the beautiful girls they saw...but DIDN'T TALK TO ONE. Or if they did, they stopped at the first sign of rejection. But you, you go out meet girls, get numbers, kisses, and fucks because you're better than that. Girls love you, and you love yourself, but you'll never understand this if you don't take the first step which is the approach.
So you see approach anxiety is the stupidest thing in the world, who doesn't want to have a good time, meet new people, and experience beauty in their life? The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Best,
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