hi.
i have a friend who's 25 years old without any experience with girls, no kiss no nothing.
im new to PUA and started training lately and i asked him a few times to join, he came one time and never come back, and he actually did ok that one time, it didnt look like he has that much AA.
so ive been asking him few times to join to and he refused and didnt tell why and today we met up and i asked him why he always refuse to come training and he told me that he just decided to give up.. he said that he dont care if he never has a girlfriend in his life.
fucking made me sad.. i tried to talk to him but he said that society thinks its wrong to be alone but he said that he believes in faith and if he shouldnt have a girl that its fine with him..
i told him that a girl wont just show up in his door room and he said that he knows but he dont care.
his not that much close friend but i dont want to see him in 2-5 years in the same spot and regret not doing anything to change it.
he said that he dont think that talking to girls on the street would help him a bit with finding a girlfriend.
any opinions on what to do? just leave him alone and let him live his life the way he finds best?

If he's really a friend to you, you'll build him up. Bring to light to him all of the qualities that he is keeping from some deserving girl. Give him value.

It's possible that maybe he legitimately just wants to be single. Just because it's not what you want doesn't make it wrong. If he's happy about it, then just let it be.

I went through a similar situation with a friend and handled it by insisting to him that I needed a wing (I don't, but had to get him out of the house). I told him to not worry about anything other than entertaining the obstacle. Without any expectations in the interaction, he rocked the set. A week later and he was back on the scene. Sometimes guys just need to be reminded that they have value, and that female attention is fun.

I have a lot of friends that refuse to believe in pickup. No matter how much success they may see from me, they just don't think they can do it.

That said, most of them have eventually found partners. Think of all of the AFC's in this world that have wives. Sometimes life connects them. Your friend may fall into this mold.

We have a section in our book where Ma$e goes through a period kind of like what you describe. He stops dating all together and reinvents himself. When he gets back out there, he is more powerful than ever.

So how does that apply? Invite your friend out to social activities. Grill N Chills. Game Nights. A baseball game. Get a bunch of people together, including women you'd be ok with him meeting. As he gets involved with this group and realizes it's fun, he may be more inclined to come out with you in the future. Then when you disappear and pull a two set back to him, he will help with decent conversation and may become more interested in pickup.

If anything, you can know you've tried and focus on other friends. We can't save them all.

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