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Hey guys
I don't even know where to ask this question, I hope you guys can help me.
I've been with a girl for two months now, and the absolutely crucial part of our relationship doesn't work ... because of me.
We had sex a couple of weeks ago, witch ended up quite badly. The first forty minutes were great, at one point she moved to the other side of the bed, and I panicked. After that, she came back, but my erection was gone, she got mad and we stopped. She was really mad, she thought it was her fault etc. We tried a few days later, unfortunately I was panicky again, checking my erection every second, and of course, I had a hard time getting it up, at witch point she wanted to break up. I explained to her everything, and although she was understanding and said we would try some other time, my stomach squeezes in and I'm so stressed out every time we get intimate I just can't relax and enjoy her. I fear my penis is going to fail me again, and of course because of this it IS.
Can you guys help me with this? I'm truly in love with this girl and I want to keep her.
Hey mate, I feel your pain. It took me 6 months to get it up with my first girlfriend. I tried EVERYTHING (even hypnotism). If you can get your hands on a viagra pill, break it into 4. Just a quarter will do. Its your anxiety causing it, nothing else. If you're young enough to use the internet, discover a pickup community and have a girlfriend, it has nothing to do with your age (so no need to see a doctor).
Read the book Sex God Method. Besides cool sex stuff that will build your confidence in the sack, it also has an entire chapter on what you described, filled with tips to get it working again.
The magic solution?
Dont masturbate or watch porn for a month. It took me a week and I came in 10 minutes with the girl (which never happened before).
As for your girl, I doubt you truly do love her, or if she even is all that amazing to begin with. She should be more understanding as your issue is a very common one, her bitching about it won't help solve the problem.
All the best man, keep trying and don't worry, you'll have days where your little sergeant wont stand at attention, but once you're comfortable with yourself, he'll plow the shit out of your girl's bunker
PM me if you need anything more, and keep in touch with me, I want to be sure you are doing okay
Love and lots of it
TheMack
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