I have no idea why, but recently I have no sex drive whatsoever. I haven't had sex in 5 months now, even though I've had opportunities to change that, somewith girls I liked, some with girls who were fugly but still would have been a preferable alternative to another month of celibacy. I'm literally a phone call away from no strings attached sex, but I do nothing. At the same time, not having sex and the feeling like I won't have sex for months or years yet is really damaging my confidence.

I could be in a bar, in class or whatever, I'll see a girl I think is hot but feel no desire to do anything about it (not that I'd know where to start, but there's not even a desire to learn how to start), I just get this empty, somehow "heavy" feeling? Like there's no point, because even if she does like me, I wouldn't even want sex.

Even the other day, when I was with a girl I know who I REALLY like, things were going really well but every time I imagined sex there just came a blank along with the "whats the point" feeling. I wanted to kiss and touch her (and did), but anything beyond just blank.

I drink ALOT and pretty much never get any exercise, could that be the reason? Or am I suffering from some kind of depression like some people have said?

ive found the combination of pc muscle exersizes, a small amout of jelking and taking supplimentation containing horny goat weed,tribulus and zinc to be great to crank up the drive again.Exersize helps aswell for obvious reasons.
if your on any antidepressants for depression then youd usually lose some drive or if youve got high amounts of stress it will lower your drive.
If your mind is going blank try remembering a hot porn vid youd seen.

Heavy drinking is the most common reason for losing your sex drive, followed by obesity and other drug kinds of drug abuse. Psychologically it could be that your depressed or really stressed out. As you have already said that your a heavy drinker and don't exercise the best thing to do is stop drinking and start doing some gentle exercise. If it doesn't start to return then the best thing to do is to see a doctor but I'm pretty sure lessening the drink and exercising will do the trick.

Go out and exercise. Exercising proven to boost your testosterone which is nearly the sole hormone for ones sex drive even females are influenced by testosterone for sex.

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HI,
The common reason for low sex drive is not doing exercise, Heavy drinking ,Stress. And all this things are included in you case.Exercise plays an important role for sexual health.It helps to improve body image, sexual performance , reduce the risk of erectile dysfunction.So try to do regular exercise and avoid heavy drinking...

Watch porn,
each oysters,
banana
dates,
drink lots of water,
stop your alcohol,
stop the weed,
hang out with women,
stop hangin out with dudes,
do yoga,
go to gym and work on legs and hamstring
If you cant get sex, masturbate everyotherday to aswaken your muscles.

use it or loose it

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just google kung fu SEX

that would help you, i just doing this for 2years and working

One of the major effects of too much alcohol is the lack of sex drive. I think you should start a healthy lifestyle and your normal sex drive will come back.

FOREPLAY is extremely effective for kick starting a hard-on! You may not feel like having sex when you get into the room (or wherever you decide to get it on), but a few minutes of foreplay should do the trick.

Also, alcohol bad for the your blood flow. which in turn can affect your ability to get an erection.

Moreover, the following foods will help boost your libido:

avocados
raw oysters
bananas
nuts
almonds
eggs
liver

Hope this helps,

Max

All the advice you got is good. But I also think that you must be nervous or something. I also used to lose sex drive when I was at a party. I could see a hot girl, like her, but not feel like having sex with her. Then I get home and think about her and suddenly I wanted to have sex with her. This made me realize that my nervousness and fear of escalation killed my sex drive.

I have a super low drive i find for the most part, so I recently went on the internet and was looking for a cure.

I found it.

It's this plant called the "Maca Root". It tastes like ass, but it's been proven to be good for increased libido, as well as
removing some anxiety and increasing energy (it's good for menopause too! XD). I bought some Maca Root extract the other day,
and boy did it work! I gave it a test run at my house and, well, i couldn't sleep because i tried it not too long before bed
I definitely had increased energy levels, my stress anxiety was pretty much nullified, and i wanted to fuck like a rabbit.
Go to a health supplement shop or a fitness store and you should be able to find some. Include Maca Root in
your daily life, as well as going to the gym and cutting back on unhealthy habits, and you'll have a strong sex drive in no time at all!

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heavy drinking and no excercise is a sure way to loose your sex drive.

You say you drink heavily, I would really cut back or stop. If your having trouble, you might need some profesional help.