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PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 11:09 pm 
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Hi, I am a 16 yearold boy just starting his junior year in highschool. I have had sex with one girl who broke up with me for another guy about 6 months ago. Sense then I have been really depressed and kinda layed low for a while but I think Im ready to try and get with more girls just to meet new poeple and hopfully forget completely about her. Anyways, my question is...how do I talk to girls... and hot ones.I get so nervous, and I just don't know what to say. I feel like of I talk to one there gonna reject me. I also feel like other guys have a way better chance almost like... "why would she want to talk to me when she could talk to him."I hope this is the right section but Im not sure what to do I'm pretty down on the fact that I dont talk to girl. If someone could help me or point me in the right direction I would be very thankful :).


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 1:33 am 
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I feel like of I talk to one there gonna reject me. I also feel like other guys have a way better chance almost like... "why would she want to talk to me when she could talk to him."
The first thing you need to do is get rid of that mindset, and quickly. Your rejection is perceived rather than real. The girl is not rejecting you, you are rejecting yourself.

EVERYONE gets rejected, including those guys that you tell yourself the girls would be better off talking to instead of you. You need to learn to enjoy the rejection. Laugh about it, because it will make a great story one day. If you get rejected, then you're doing something right, because that means you're trying.

Check out the book "How To Become An Alpha Male" by John Alexander.


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Thank you that really helped alot :) really thanks


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interesting, Yes I agree


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 11:01 pm 
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Ya it's honestly all just a big mind set. Just think about things over a couple times and go for it. If you get rejected, just like other said just laugh about it later on.

Good luck!

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 02, 2011 3:59 pm 
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Yes, rejection is normal everyone has experienced it. Think of it as a Feedback and try to make the best of it by improving your methods ; )
Tom


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