I found this old conversation from 4 years ago. Wow........ Im sure some of you can relate to this.

Here’s a solid example of communicating with a low self perceived value from an online conversation with a female that I wanted to date from a few years back.
Female: Hey
I didn't notice you tried to add me a little while ago ..i'm really bad for checking that part lol I can't go to boston pizza tonight I have to work ..
Me: How about tommorrow night then? If you're not interested then just say no.

I don’t think I could have said anything worse than this. Basically what this message is communicating to her, is that her value is higher than mine, and she should find a different male with more value than mine. Needless to say, things did not work out the way that I wanted to with this girl. However, it was the beginning of understanding what was going wrong, and all of the things that I had to ameliorate when socializing with people.

Well don't stress about it. The important thing is not that you made one mistake. I've probably done worse. What's cool is that you learned from it (by recognizing on your own) which I think shows you're well on your way to success. So congrats!

haha, I wanted to chat with her the other day just to shoot the shit, and facebook was all screwed up and it showed that message above it, and I was like woah I came a long way.