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PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2011 9:46 pm 
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Guys I have a big problem, I have started to hang with these awesome people that involves girls. Now my biggest problem is that i can talk to people that I just met because there are a couple of things you can talk about like their background.

After a couple of days I have trouble talking to girls/friends even my best friends because I run out of things to talk about. Now I try to start random topics but they go nowhere.

Guys give me some tips on improving my social chattiness. I'm really struggling to talk to people when i'm not in a group, I'm usually alright in a group cause i drop comments that might be funny but when i'm isolated with people i can run out of things to talk about.


Thanks a lot guys
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PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2011 3:15 pm 
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I'm the same. It's kinda difficult unless you have the same interests as them, in which case you can chat away about that particular thing. Try to find out what they're interested in, and then take an interest in it so that you can ask them about it. People are happy to talk to you if you ask them about something they're interested in, and it's not hard to give prompts and ask questions about it to keep the conversation going.

Chattier people tend to talk about themselves and not care whether the other person might find it interesting, but I know it's hard not to worry what the other person might think if you are reserved.


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