I'm starting to get irrated with this problem I have. Let me explain.

The way I game is by by using charm and seduction. I go up to the girl game her, get her number, and close. Then when I text her and start feeling attraction towards her I turn into AFC MAN! I can't help it! I start talking to her all nice like (how was your day beautiful) and all this non alpha male shit. I think this is why all my relationships have ended up with me being dumped because I put so much AFC pressure on them. But the opposite happens when I have no attraction towards a girl. I game her like a real alpha male should and don't really care what I say or if I hurt there feelings or not. This is probably why all my exs are in love
With me because when they text me I turn on pua mode and game them how I should. I think i act nice because I'm afraid of losing them. Please give me some advice or something to help this problem.

-warkid10

Hey, I've felt your pain in the past but those days are lonnng gone.

The solution is a simple one, game more girls, get more numbers, focus your attention on one or two different girls a day, soon you'll get fed up with all the txting and calling that your phone will do your fucking head in and you'll only use it as a tool to arrange a meet up...

Women chit chat, men just do it...keep the conversation to a minimum and retain the mystery about the guy who got her number.

When you speak to your friends and arrange to do stuff, do you send them twenty messages in the day or just tell them you'll meet them somewhere? If you get blown out leave it a few days/week then ask her out again - or just tell her you're in the area "towards the end of the week" and you should meet up and save the world or something.

Men and Women need physical interaction, 80% of what we say isn't in the written word, GET OFF THE PHONE!!

You know the same exact thing happened to me with this girl I was just dating (we aren't anymore, she vanished on me).

I attracted her by being funny, charming, flirty, yet at the same time indifferent and making her chase me and work for my attention. She finally gets my attention, and I go all AFC, texting her sweet things and being really nice, when the thing that attracted her to me in the first place was my cockiness and my teasing. It must have turned her off, I was too nice, not assertive enough and after 3 dates she must have had enough.

I confused her nervousness and shyness around me as a sign that I should take things slow. What I've learned from that horrible mistake is I should be cocky, get her laughing and happy around me tease her like how I got her liking me in the first place, then use that opportunity to escalate physically. But no I was the nice guy who held her hand and said she was pretty and thought in time she would get comfortable.

We all make mistakes bro, just learn from them and next time you'll do much better, I know I will.