Hello everybody, my name is Pedro and I...Well, i just don't think i can do any of this.

I don't know if here is the right place to post but all the things that i read about improving socially and stuff just don't work for me.

I have Acanthosis Nigricans ( for those who don't know what it is i'm affraid you'll have to make a google image search because the forum doesn't allow me to post a pic.I'm black [more like brown] and my neck is way darker than my face, others parts of my body are like that too) and i just think people (especially girls) get disgusted by it thinking that i'm durty or something like that (it's a skin disease, i'm trying to get it off by losing weight and doing a diet for it but my doctor said that it would be hard to go away fully).

I can't look at myself in the mirror in daylight because i get ashemed, i just think that girls look at me disgusted and that just break me even before going to talk to them.I don't know why i posted this here but i'm really depressed by all this and is good to let it out.

Your losing the weight to help with it but thats not what will make you good at game dude untill you realise there is no one better than you on this planet we are all equal , you gotta get this in your head IF YOU WANT THIS? If you want this dude then throw yourself into every situation imaginable with women the aura of a guy who takes this level of risk overcomes his looks and gets women because he increased his value by mastering himself to women thats like a male version of a boob job.I have a mate whos face has a massive birthmark and the skin is droopy on one side and he does well with women, hes developed and instant rapport with people probably originally for people not to reject him but now he can create massive attraction!.
its sad for me to hear someone talk about themselves like that and its bullsht sorry to sound harsh but i want you to succeed,most girls you actually meet are brought up to be polite you will get bitches but we all do not all of us are brad pitt look alikes some of us you probably wouldnt trade places for on a good day.Find someone that will push you very hard and youll get your confidence back.
peace bro.

I'm going to oversimplify this, no offense intended.

issues I see in your post....self image, thinking you can read minds, thinking that looks are all that matters.

I know this isn't easy, everyone has self image issues of one kind or another and they don't really go away they just shrink to a manageable level through self acceptance and change. This is just part of the human condition but there will come a day when your skin doesn't bother you like it does now.

you are picturing in your mind that the women think you are dirty. That is the delusion that you know exactly what a strange woman you have never spoken to is thinking. All of those thoughts are bogus and are coming from your own self image problems.

looks...I am not one that says looks don't matter at all, but for a man looks are not the same as for women. Women really need looks a lot more than we do. A man can do what he can with what he's got, and make up the difference with his brain and his lifestyle. If that were not true none of this dating coaching stuff would work at all, but it does.

Yep, all of them are bogus.

When he learns how to stop projecting his own thoughts onto others he'll be just fine.

Plus, it's irrelevant what someone else thinks, it's how they feel and when a woman sees confidence and other qualities she can't see his skin at all.

Of course, he'll get tested on this a lot, and that's probably part of the problem he's having. He's likely assuming that when a woman brings it up (and they will) that they're displaying a negative reaction when the vast majority of the time they're actually unconsciously testing to see how he feels about himself.

Corretor, I know it feels 100% real to you, but I and others will honestly and truthfully tell you that it is an illusion that's built in from what you've gathered from television or other media plus social programming.

Here is an example: I know a guy who was in a bad accident, and things are WAAAAY worse for him because his face is half partially pushed in and lopsided, he can't get false teeth to fit right so he doesn't use them half the time, his speech is slurred because of some facial paralysis, the kind of man that could make kids cry.

This guy is a chick magnet. Seriously. And, I'm talking about hotties hitting on him a lot. This is because after his accident he was really depressed and then after a few months he just said "fuggit, this is what I look like, can't do anything about it, whatever" and went on with his life. (We've been friends since before the accident, so we discussed it).

The dude just does his own thing. He has a crappy job for now while he's going to college. He wants to be a guy who just goes over legal documents looking for errors and such....that's practical because looks don't matter in that type of job.

Anyway, he flips burgers at a bar and he can be seen from the dance floor. Girls walk up there (some of them the hottest in the place) and hit on him....and often wait for him to get off shift ......he has "presence" because he's comfortable with himself, in a positive mood about his future and what he can get out of life, and not even conscious anymore about how scary he looks.

Before the accident he wasn't all that successful with women, in fact, he was average!

If a guy with a smashed in face, without teeth half the time, and has slurred speech can have such a good attitude about himself that HB10s chase him, so can you.

Thanks for the answer guys, i'm feeling better now.Going to try pua stuff out, will post here when i have any news

We are all waiting.
Good Luck