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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 9:12 am 
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Fuck. This sucks man! My social group is. My brother, His girlfriend. His girlfriends best friend/Her boyfriend. My brothers best friend/his girlfriend. And me. My brother is my age so we know all the same people. This is why our social cicle is together because ive know them all since he has known them. But im sick of having to be seem like a loser who cant get girls! Pisses me the fuck off man.

Today we went out to a club. It was mainly a dancefloor. I tried to dance with few girls. But only danced with like 2-3 and they were like all 5s. Everyone else kept walking away or was already dancing with someone. I seen some hot as girls walk by me by the stairs where it was quite but i couldnt say anything. Was either to scared or just didnt know what to say. I've read every single meathod there is! From mystery to 60 yoc. Like everything there is out there on atttraction, seduction etc. Yea i understand you gotta field test it but i just dont know how to fucking begin.

At college. I cant approach any girl during the day. I'm not even bad looking kid. Actually i would say im at least 7-8. I dress really nice! (ask for pic if you wanna see ill pm it shit lol) but im just saying. I dont know wtf im so scared for. I hate looking like i cant get any girls. My friends are actually cool though. They dont crack jokes or make fun about it. They dont say nothing. But i can notice that they know i cant get girls. Like my brothers girls friend tried to help me out by pointing out girls and telling me to go talk to them. I just couldnt do it. I wanted to show her that i know i know how to pick up girls and i dont need her handouts or w.e lol

I wish i could just get hipnotized so i wouldnt give a fuck about anything. So i wouldn't care what the world thinks. So i can just do what ever the fuck i want, When I want and how I want. And tAlk to any girl without being scared! Goshh im so fed up of this. Been reading this stuff for like 2 years now. And thats it. Just been reading. and doing nothing. And it pisses me off!!


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 11:25 am 
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im going threw shit like that, im tryn to get better and i agree 100%.
Shits hard i just wana say fuck it, and go talk to chicks. but i always bitch out.

The best thing to do to get over anything is to face it. Go after your fears and dont turn down. im workn on that.

If that chick pointed girls out to me i wouldve said. Well why dont you bring them over here if your so interested(sarcastic) so she'll stop acting like shes doin you a favor


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 11:22 pm 
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One thing that will be in the way is the fragile ego because the ego says im an 8 and any negative feedback from a girl rejecting you infront of the whole club and your friends will hurt it.
Girls dont rate an 8guy on his looks so much as his ability to overcome himself and approach them in a confident real way ,theyre like talent scouts.
You gotta go hard do the numbers before you get good no such thing as something for nothing.
Be humble enough and allow yourself to fail and learn.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 1:20 am 
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looks will only get you so far before you have to pull the trigger. as i have said before does looking good help? of course it does because a girls "bitch field" will be lowered. but it is not the only be all end all of game.

you know the girls you rate a 5? why not use them as practice? network THROUGH them don't just discard them and keep forward. every girl has a value it may not be apparent but find a use for them one way or another.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 5:38 am 
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I was terrified to talk to any hot girl up until about 4 days ago it started getting better.
Read The Thread the Newbie mission in General questions.
it really helps with AA


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 4:42 am 
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you have to say fuck it.... think about the feeling of having a amazing interaction with someone and things going the way you want it too. Start applying your reading otherwise give up.


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