Recently i decided to grow some balls. My friend mentioned mystery's show and i started googling shit on picking up girls, and found this site.

So i decided that i would have at least 1 good conversation with a random girl each day at my school/ work.

So far they have all gone pretty good id say. They have laughed at what i intended them to laugh at and my openers worked out like i planned. Each time it was tough to do it, but i just pushed myself and it paid off. Its startin to really build some self esteem for myself and it just makes school and work less dry and more like a game.

One problem im having tho is that i cant build up to asking there number. I dunno what it is, i guess fear of rejection. This is my current goal and id like to know some techniques and sugguestions for getting numbers.

Fear is like a wall, and you have to bust threw it. Everyone has that fear of rejection, and trust me sometimes you get rejected. It's part of learning just keep to your guns, and learn from everything. After you've built about 30 min of talking time with a girl you should ask be able to have the guts to ask for her number if she is enjoying the conversation. Getting the number is only half the battle my friend thats easy to get numbers. Girls give numbers out sometimes just to get guys to leave them alone. So don't worry about asking try it out and learn from it. Make a goal for yourself to ask for 3 numbers over the next couple of days and get back to me with a PM.

If you got a girl interested enough in you it shouldn't be a problem. Some girls are easier to get numbers from than others, I've gotten numbers within the first 10 minutes of talking to them. I know some girls will give out numbers to guys that they are comfortable with or ones they can trust.

One thing im proud of is I havent ever asked for a number in the traditional sense. I have expected it by pulling my phone out and saying put your number in and ill call you. Most of the time I forget their name so this is a great way of not making that known.
I always expect it this way and I still havent failed if shes talking to you and your intresting enough its more than likely she would enjoy talking to you again so make it happen.

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Rejection isn't really that bad honestly.. Everyone gets rejected at one point or another. If it's rejection from a woman most of the time they are rejecting a stranger because of their ASD. They really arn't rejecting you because they don't know YOU yet. As for an easy way of getting #'s without rejection I will usually talk about something intersting coming up and don't really give them an option.

For example you meet a girl at a party and you tell her about another party or event you are going to.. if she shows the slightest interest you say "you should come, give me your number and so we can go." I have only done this method about 10 times but it has 100% success rate. It works well because the girl it's like "DUH y wouldnt i give him my # for this". She doesn't feel sexually threatened and you are not ASF. You take charge and don't ask. I can # close with this method in less than 5 minutes easy.