I saw my best friends from my community college at Halloween Horror Nights this weekend in Orlando, Florida; I had not seen them all at once in a couple of years. When we all got together I noticed I jumped into a sub-personality and I felt like a different person. It was amazing. I have been studying "The Game" and opening here and there and being timid at times, after the few routines that I have down are finished I worry what I am going to say next and freak myself out. But when I was with that group I was alpha. I had this energy that I never had when I would try and sarge. It felt amazing. We all know each other so well, I did not care what I did or said, we were always laughing and just having a great time.

I will remember this when I go out from now on because I believe this is the energy we need to have and carry with us when we open and sarge. For people who have wing-men, I say hang out with them when you are not out sarging to get to know them and build great chemistry because once we have that energy then nothing can stop us.

that is the energy you need. when you see "natural alphas", they have this similar attitude (not always) because they assume rapport. thats what a good circle is, good rapport and that releases you from the inner doubt. youll notice that that circle of friends puts you in a different mood than your coworkers, or other people you see once in a while. the challenge is being able to move that energy, guide it, move it where you need it, and eventually utilize it without those people being around. its hard because the dynamics are different with people you dont know, sometimes lots of politics involved. but yes, i think you found "the zone".

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I feel the same way as well! When I am with my friends I get very comfortable and gain a lot of confidence, and I do things that I would probably never do alone (like playing the piano with my butt for the laffs). I don't have the same energy when I am with people I do not know very well.

I know exactly what your saying, I went and visited some friends I hadn't seen since high school and I was totally in the zone, I'm was coming up with jokes about stuff that I never usually can, and they of course thought I was awesome, wish I could be like that all the time.