it's odd but my problem isn't so much with the girls, but with the guys around the girls. If I'm at a party and I approach a girl or two, I can talk to both of them, no problem.

But then if I'm at a party and I see a dude I know and I go over to say hi and get some dap for the sake of social proof and I see he has some girls and other guys he's friends with, I can't do anything. Even with the social proof, the other guys just know my motives and try to break me. But, then I just brush or off or try to make friends so that actually isn't so bad since I just social proofed so I'm in...

But that STILL isn't my problem. As I just insinuated in the second scenario, I can't just walk up to a mixed group of guys and girls and start talking to them. Like if I see two cute girls and two or three guys already there, how do I go about walking up to this group in a party setting? They seem to already be friends. I'm not a friend of theirs. How do I walk up to this group, by myself, and try to open with the girls?

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This is a simple scenario, once you know what to do..

Now don't overthink what I am about to tell you because it will just frustrate you..

You have to befriend the guys, go upto the guys and say;

YOU: Hey guys, do you know any good clubs around here?
GUYS: Yes, XXX or YYY

Now, that they have answered you start talking to the girls and it should go something like this:

YOU: So girls, what do you think of club XXX?
HB's: bla bla bla

Then you start speaking to the girls with emotion behind what you are saying, because AFC's and even a lot of PUA's don't know how to speak with emotion (which is how you actually get the girl - by speaking with emotion and NOT logic).

YOU: Oh yes, I remember that club XXX now.. I had one of the craziest nights there which was unplanned. The nights that you don't plan are always the fun nights out because you have no expectations and you can just let loose and have fun.. (it doesn't matter what you say (logic), its how you say it (emotion) - whilst saying the above you should be speaking with expressive voice tonality, playful, power; as though you just got a promotion or won the lottery - but make sure you calibrate your energy level to theirs..

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