I have a doubt about sex

My first time wasn't very good, I mean, I liked, but took quite long till I cum, I gues that's because was my first experience.

Although, even aftert that, I don't be very nervous like before, bu I still have difficult to feel and relax.

I always hear guys saying that sex's great, it's wonderfull, etc, noneless, when I have sex I don't feel this glorious feeling, I mean, I get excited, enjoy, but in the end kind feels like normal, like it's sex isn't that all they talk about

Indeed, I only had sex three times, and because of that I kept think if it's normal a guy nearly unexperience feel this way so is that only a matter of time and practice, or else if's there something wrong with my that I can't relax and feel sex that marvelous way we always hear from other guys, especially those so called sucessful with women

What do you guys think? Yours' firsts, seconds, thirds.... times wasn't like the way you've imagined also?

All you need to say to yourself is: stop thinking. Remember a famous and overused slogan, "just do it". That's it.

Seriously, the more you think about this, the worse it will get, the more you will over analyse, the more you will see other options, the more you will doubt yourself etc etc. Remember WHY you are having sex - because you like the girl, you are attracted to her, and you want to enjoy the intimacy. Let your body take hold, and stop thinking. Just do it.

masturbation is more pleasurable than sex, it's the having a partner thing that makes sex so great.

how about, the next time you're doing it, forget about yourself completely and just give her as many orgasms as possible . and try new techniques etc to this end. seriously, don't even think about how much you're enjoying it, just see how far you can push her.

maybe you're just not going for girls you are gut level attracted to. Try looking up the gunwitch method.