This is a question all you guys out there.. when I was younger it would just take a girl to touch my hand and Id get a hard on right there and then. But as I get older and have slept with more women it takes me longer to get a hard on and they have to do more to turn me on..

I know most guys probably just need to start kissing the girl n its up and ready to go but I need her to start stroking my dick or sucking it or get really dirty for me to really get in the mood.

The weird thing is when I have a relationship I am constantly horny and it doesn't take anything for me to want to have sex with my girl but its usually with random encounters that I need more help getting it up.

Does this happen to any of you guys? I don't just want a girl to lie there and expect it I want her to work me up..

How old are you?

Dude if that shit is happening you gotta stop beating your meat and you will see yourself improve in the bedroom. I had the same problem I would do it two times everyday (even before parties) and when I got with a girl it would be floppy.

yeah stop jerkin off so often. And start taking horny goat weed

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NO MORE PORN. u can jerk it once or twice a week but thats it, if u do think of real life people and not videos. use your imagination, dont let a screen tell you what to like. and always give at least 2 days preparation of not jerking before your going to have sex. dont completely stop jerking it unless you can have sex on a weekly basis, if you wait too long, you may lose your sex drive and that can turn into a mess.

Yeah I think jerk off less basically - and when you do use your imagination, because then you can think of the same thing when you need the erection, and you don't need a screen. If you've been jerking off for a long time to porn then that is when your body thinks it has to perform, and not in the real situations. Also, this is more to myself: drink less alcohol.

I think you're fine. I'm never satisfied with one night stands because I can't really get into it. In The Game, Style couldn't get hard when he had a porn queen in the bathroom because he didn't build up any connection with her. I think this is what it is to be a civilized man. Sure, it's fail on an evolutionary level, but you're not trying to impregnate these women, are you? Just be happy that you're satisfied when you're in a relationship, those are the ones that count, right?

It may not just be jerking off too much. When I'm with someone I actually care about the sex is much better than someone I hardly know. If you have an emotional link with the girl such as you do in a relationship, you are far more attracted and attached to the girl and its easy to get it up. Last relationship I was in I would have a hard on every time we touched in any sexual way and ready to go. However after we broke up and I was back on the scene, even girls that were hotter than my last girlfriend didn't give me instantaneous boners with mere touching. I think what you are going through is fairly normal and nothing to be too worried about.