Alright, i think that i am pretty good looking, and i say this because girls, hot ones, seem to come up to me. and i mean hot. the thing is, im way too pussy to say anything good, ill usually just mutter 'oh yea' or 'oh really?' and honestly, that girl will never want to talk to me ever again. I mean, in the beginning it starts out strong because i seem pretty cool, but it only goes downhill from that. I wanna change that, I wanna know what to say, how to keep my cool. I want one of two things, either to be my friend or to have a relationship with them.

C'mon man, you know about the pickup community and you complain about this ? Anyone in the community knows that you have to practice over and over again. You are just standing and waiting to get approached. So you get 1 set coming up to you in 1 night or 1 month. You think you are gonna learn something like that ? Go up to as many women as you can and start talking with them. If the conversation goes bad, no problem, take it as feedback for the next time. Once I was wearing something and a girl came to me and told me that I was the best dressed guy in the room. My reply was: "Yes, I know.". She got shocked. I killed her confidence because that reply was too arrogant. So from her reaction I learned to not reply that cocky anymore. Every interaction makes you a better person. So stop whining and go talk to women.