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PostPosted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:29 pm 
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cool. I'm glad that inspires you. Just to remind you, I got a lot of rejection asking girls to dance. I think that going into the dance floor can give no or very little progress to the guy's game. Because I went again last friday, and I remembered about social proof. Even though I got a few dances with a girl, you can be seen like a loner asking everybody, because I do notice a lot of guys just outside the dancefloor just standing but looking. I think it's better if you dance near to a girl and just have fun and dance.

I still get AA p.s. The best way to improving on gaming is to actually approaching with the correct method. And that's what I need to be doing actually.

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dude! i, too congratulate you! This is your first time in a club? Seriously? Kudos man. Kudos.

Anyhoo, it seems to me that you're seeing the brightside of things. At this point you probably learned to go against the initial feeling of fear. haha.

anyways, i got something for your mindset. This is something I learned from David D's "ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE" that HELPED A LOT. Think about "What can go RIGHT?" the next time you interact with a girl. Most of the time people thought about what can go WRONG. So instead of thinking about a girl rejecting you the next time you pick up, you can think about what can go right like the girl talk with you, laugh at your jokes, give you her number, or simply responded to your Hello.

I hope this helps. But still, kudos man. Kudos.

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You may want to read Mike Plinskis book "Without Embarrassment". It's a good book for people who suffer from shame.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 5:25 am 
forget about high school, and focus on the future


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