Hey. I am in high school, a senior and I have this approach anxiety thing. I had tried to approach a girl and failed because I was too fast. There is this girl I am interested in that IS NOT in any of my classes what so ever. I just see her around and I want to approach her. The thing about high school is that I don't want to ruin my reputation because of the fear of rejection or what not. I think I am good looking, and had been on dates and such but never had a girlfriend. I just don't know how to approach her at school because she is not in any of my classes or what not. Thanks

Go over to her, and tell her: "I like [her best attribute] about you, you're gorgeous. Even if you don't go out with me, would you take a picture with me?"

If she's cool, she will respond positively. If it turns out she's a bitch forget about her and move on to the next one.

Thanks good tip. I'll try that out once school starts =)

That answer was a clear oversimplification of the situation... That is a direct approach. If you believe that you have the attitude to pull it off then by all means go for it.

I just dont think that this will be so easy to do once you are in the situation. Going up to her and starting by giving a compliment (revealing your interest making it akward) and the follow up with a comment that you already believe that she will not go out with you (showing that you yourself do not think that you are worth her, not attractive) and then basically begging for at least a photo (for pitys sake).

No that is not gonna be a dream pickup.


Better to play it cool. You dont need any cheesy pickupline. Just talk to her. Is she even aware that you excist? Try to find some connection to her. A friends friend or something.
Yes, rejection is difficult and reputation is bad. You gotta realize though that if you dont play you cant win. There are no guarantees that you will succeed. You will have to risk it. Game her like any other girl.