Right here's a problem i have had with the last two girls i managed to bring back to my apartment.

The first one a HB8 pretty blonde came back with me and her friend plus i had other friends there too.

We get back she lays down on the sofa and closes her eyes like she's all tired from clubbing and drinking.
Anyway i end up kissing her right there and ask her if she wants to sleep in my room. So far so good, i'm thinking i'm gonna get laid which is long overdue.

We're now under the covers and she rolls away from me saying she's tired and i'm just lying there wanting some action.

What should i have done??? She had drunk a fair amount and yeah she may have been tired but she was clearly giving me the signal that something would happen. Anyway nothing happened until the next morning when i kissed her again and eventually after texting for a few weeks she blew me off (not literally sadly).

I can't help but think it all came down to the fact i never nailed her that night.

A second similar story i get a brunnette back around an 8.

She comes to bed with me. i seem to have no problem getting them to the bedroom. but again a similar thing happened, she was kinda tired and i didn't know what to do to escalate from a kiss and i eventually got froze out.
a few weeks of texting later and same thing happens she isn't interested, stops replying to my texts.

What am i not doing that needs to be done?

Also i'm having a bit of performance anxiety like i'm scared i won't be able to perform well in bed which doesn't help matters.

Ace:

It sounds like you're looking for fools mates (drunk one night stands).

A proper close should be at least 6 hours of spending time with her (comfort, qualification, etc) before sex.

However, if you want to have a fools mate, then grow a pair and make a move! If you get rejected, freeze her out and then try again.

GIRLS LOVE SEX. Probably even more than guys. Think about it. A girl can feel so much more pleasure than a guy during sex. If she's coming in to bed with you, she's obviously not completely opposed to fucking you.


About your other issue, confidence is king. If you are nervous about sex, you won't do well. You have to psych your self up "nobody out there can fuck like Ace, I'm gonna give her an unforgettable experience"

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Red Hot