So long story short, im now dating a girl that was my one itis for one year. I never really felt shy before with her, but now that we are dating, I barely can talk to her and look at her in the eyes. Any idea on how i can overcome my shyness ?
Btw im in HS and we havent kiss (lips) yet.

-rAfc PinkMartini

Man u are so lucky, dating ur Oneitis.

Why u waiting to kiss her man. Didnt u want to do that for the past one year. be the man in relationship. I am sure if u dont do that u will be in friends zone, pretty fast.

Let me just say, pretty much the same happened with me and my oneitis. We used to go shopping, movies n stuff. But i was too shy to escalate physically and i lost her.And thats the reason i got into PUA. lol we are stil gd friends but it still hurts, even though i tell myself she is not special than any other girl... lol the cat string theory in play

So man up and escalate. Thats my advice. Gd luck bro

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I've always had trouble kissing a girl...
but that's good advice man, ill escalate as much as i can thanks
Now that im dating her, i dont see her as a oneitis no more. Weird sensation. She's not inacessible...

Hi PM,

I think you may realise you have fallen into the friends only zone. You have little choice to escalate with kino and hope its recoverable or just bail out or accept that's all it will be and try to use it.

Another aspect is that you may have talked a lot with this girl and feel you have nothing left to offer. can any person really sustain an interesting conversation more than a few hours in total?