I got an interesting problem, but it's one that I've somewhat intentionally created.

I was curious awhile back, who could get more girls to talk to him. Myself as an American or myself as Brit. Needless to say, the brit has won. Literally, hands down all the time. The american has made no progress what so ever.

While i know girls just "like" accents, I find it a bit problematic that when i call people out on this issue. It is entirely my voice.

However, the things i get away with as the "british" version of myself i CAN'T get away with as the American version of me. For example...

Brit: You wanted to hear what song then?
Me: You want to hear what song then?

Response: You are really sexy
Response2: Oh, that Britney Spears one.


I should probably clear up, I'm a dj. Which hey, looks attractive, but no one really approaches me. People are busy, my question is when im out of the booth what can i do?! Anyway, i digress.


I really think this comes down to the allure of trying to talk to a guy who potentially doesn't understand how anything goes in the area VS. someone who is a local and initially doesn't seem appealing. Let it be said, i'll say anything and do anything for the sake of a story, so its not like i have hesitation of an approach...but it doesn't seem to work.

I think i'm rambling at this point, but it's frustrating that I'm the same person and when my friends are like "dude, do the british thing." That it instantly pulls girls, whereas as an American i'm not physically attractive, but as a Brit i'm gorgeous. Let it be said, im tall athletic, and not fuck ugly.


I have also pulled the
"Hey I'm waiting for some friends to get here, mind if i join you?" under both persona's. Clearly, we know where that goes. One is successful, the other isn't.

Thoughts on my social experiment/problem?

hmmm... my first thought is...

are you british? no? so quit being madonna...

its a crutch and its not helping you... imagin if you actually find a girl you want to date and she fins out the accent is a fake... AKWARD

instead build your skills at attraction and be happy with yourself...

heres a social experement... get a friend to vid tape you talking to girls in your true accent and your fake accent...

watch your body language... Ill bet when your using your fake accent its gonna be different.

start there

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

dude be happy with who you are

im from london england
and from watching tv beleived all californian girls were sunsoaked goddess

just find your own unique trait

if u cannot think of one start with an extreame hairstyle i dont know liberty spikes or something and keep adding to your own image

You like a shiny new toy to the people that think your not from your area, like the new kid in school.

You seem exotic and interesting, because you dont fit the norm of whats around them on a daily basis. Its like when i go overseas, they hear im american, and boom they are in love.

Problem here is, the more you act like something you know your not, the more of an identity crisis you create, which will be hard to overcome later in life. First recenter yourself, discover new details and put actual thought into who you are, then find things that fit your lifestyle that will give you a new positive you. You like being assertive as a british dude, be assertive as yourself and so on...

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