Ok this is a fear I recently developed from some bad experiences I had while sarging. Another thing is there is this club that I go to every friday however there are more guys then girls in it and it gets really frustrating because of that it essentially becomes a battle for dominance over the best girls. Another problem is that it's sometimes so loud in there it's very hard to open without leaning in. However in there I've gotten Amoged a couple times on the dance floor and usually after that I don't approach the set again because I figure that my value was already dropped in their eyes, even if they are off the floor. Another problem is I can never tell if the girls are single or not cuz it seems like 50-60% of the sets are mixed. So sometimes I don't approach at all from fear of being amoged. There's another club that's further out that's open on saturdays and I went into 7 sets and got a number close from one but i was unable to go today because i was sick. Guys I'd really appreciate some help here. I used to have a really severe fear of girls that I was attracted to because I was affraid of being rejected, now it seems like I have a fear of other guys now. I'd appreciate some help here cuz this is REALLY fucking up my inner game.

Jester don't just give in so easy. Most of the clubs around are going to have more men than women in them. However, a lot of the men there are a bunch of AA fearing wimps as well. I like to call them "wall huggers." They just stand and stare at men with balls talking to all the HBs. Do not be afraid of getting AMOGed. Men who have attracive HB GFs know that men are going to approach her all the time and will disrupt your attempts. Big Fucking Deal. Move on to the next set. As you work your way through a bar you will be surprised at how many of the HBs are single even if they have guys clinging to them.(CLINGONS). To help get over your fears, try to open as many sets as you can the next time you go out. Make the goal about opening and building yourself pre-selection rep and higher social value. When I enter a dance venue, I use the 3 sec rule and immediatly start a convo with any HB. I use a lot of natural game, so after I open, if I can's spark IOIs I'll eject to the next set. I than will work in one large circle surrounding the focus point of venue. By the time I reach the starting point, there is new people and sets there. Open, open,open. If you can get your social value high enough, HBs may even approach you. We all have our own style but never fear an AMOG. He is the one who fears you. He realizes that you my friend are the one who came into a set that had men with no fear of rejection and started gaming the HBs. He will not want you around to steal his HB so you must learn to disarm him. That being said you have found the right place here to get help with anything.