This is what I realized.

I've been reading and absorbing every thing about PUs, but it still hasn't given me the quick solution everyone wants. It gave me a few highs here and there only because I was more aware of the situations I was in with women. Before I was completely clueless.

You know why some of you aren't getting any where? Too much looking in to the future and what "could" happen. Thinking of situations you "might" be in. I had that problem since my emotional high at the bar. I kept thinking of what I would do in this situation and that situation. I still have a decent amount of social shyness.

The solution:

Start with small goals, never look in to what might or could happen. If you've been reading a shit load of material like me, you know what to do in when you get to the rapport phase blah blah. But what's the point of thinking about that when you can't approach a person? Spending massive amount of time reading about building comfort kino etc is pointless when you can't actually say 1 thing to a woman.

You know what helped A LOT, I mean TREMENDOUSLY. Learn how to use eye contact. Locking in on someone's eye is so damn important. I've been making sure anyone within a 20 feet radius I've made solid eye contact with and wait till they look away.

See you don't even have to say anything to a women and you've approached her. You shown interest. I just started my new job and I just locked eye contact w/ a girl across the room, walking one direction, turn my head slowly and bam eye to eye, with out saying a word and she smiled so I smiled back. I didn't say one damn thing but we both showed interest. Until later I found out she was my boss's daughter DAMN!

I also was at the mall running errands when I met a girl at the help desk. She looked up at me and we both just kept eye contact the whole time she was helping me. Her eyes were so blue it made me feel refreshed looking at her eyes in the heat (outdoor mall). And I made sure to tell her that. I would've NEVER done that unless I knew she would accept that compliment before hand. How did I know she would accept it? We never unlocked eye contact. Then SHE started chatting me up, I didn't even have to use an opener. Too bad her coworker was a total f'in cock block.

At my retail job a woman approached the cashier counter w/ her stuff totally silent and looked a little irritated but when I said "Hi" and locked eyes, she started smiling and got very talkative.

What I noticed a lot is that so many girls wear sunglasses it's impossible to lock eye contact with them.

If you have a lot of social shyness and saying "hi" to everyone at the mall or whatever is still impossible for you to do. I'd suggest just learning how to make eye contact with every person you see UNTIL THEY LOOK AWAY.

When I first started doing it, I would look away first then I lost them. The ones I made atleast a 3-5 second eye contact with seemed to always be happy to talk. My approaches are never a mystery now and the big question in your head "what if she doesn't want to talk to me?" which is probably main reason your shy in the first place, is gone.

The womans eye direction:

From what I noticed and read, women that look to the side after she locks eyes with you isn't interested in the most part. I haven't approached any that looked to the side so I can't give a definitive answer.

Women that look down are shy, insecure, or interested. If she looks back up before I pass her, I make sure I smile to her. If she smiles and looks down again she's really shy. If she just looks ahead and doesn't smile then screw it, move to the next person, probably a cold hearted biatch! (j/k)

Women that smile first, that's the best feeling in the world, (unless she's your boss's daughter!). I read never to smile first so I don't, it works a lot better. I smiled first before but they give u a pity smile and not a sincere smile. You can totally tell the difference after a few go's at it.

This is probably the most common thing that happens. We both lock eye contact while walking towards each other but she doesn't smile. When we're about to pass each other we lose contact. Turning your head for her seems really creepy if she's not smiling at you. It just seems ultra creepy even thinking about doing it.

Locking eye contact and no smiles or she looks to the side, from what I've notice are about 75% of the time.

Lock eyes and look down are about 20%

Lock eyes and smile, probably 5%

If you guys wanna any anything feel free. But this method proved to me it works. Especially for a guy that did not want to approach every girl at a mall and say "hi".