You are seductive when...

- you are relaxed and you relax other people by your relaxation
- when you feel good in your own skin and you make other people feel good in their skin (you don't judge yourself, you don't judge them... you accept people as they are)
- you smile from the heart, because every day is an opportunity to enjoy life and through your attitude you make other people see it that way too
- you offer an honest, genuine compliment without wanting to receive something in return
- when you every day you do one thing that scares you... because you know 90% of your fears are only in your head and you help other people see them that way too
- you challenge yourself and other people to continously evolve, to grow as human beings
- you know how to listen, without talking too much yourself...
- you know how to pay attention to other people's needs without putting your need for validation or attention first
- you know how to offer energy, not just receive it/steal it/suck it from other people

Can you think of other ways you can be seductive just by the thoughts, ideas, feelings you have about yourself and the world?

Help me complete this thread by adding your answers to it

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There's one thing that I really liked about you thread; You always talk about helping other people. I often hear people talk in a way that implies putting down others. In a competitive world the easy way to success is to damage the projects of everybody else, but the really rewarding thing to do (and most likely to give massive ammounts of success), is to help others to improve.

Maybe helping others seems like the stupid/not-cool/gay thing to do. Why would I help someone to get a HB in a club? Why would I help the AFC in the corner? Why would I teach the AMOG something cool? None of that stuff helps me.

Now let me get a little off topic to explain this properly. A peacock's tail is not a good thing to have, cause it makes difficult to evade predators and growing one is a waste of energy. But peacock-chicks dig them. Maybe cause his genes are so good that he can even waste resources in a tail.

If you can waste time and energy helping others that communicates that you are such a good guy that you can even show off your "tricks of the trade". You already "made it" so the only thing you can do is help others succeed too. So its the sexy (and ethical) thing to do.

you're right and also...

teaching is the ultimate way of learning

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question:

- when you feel good in your own skin and you make other people feel good in their skin (you don't judge yourself, you don't judge them... you accept people as they are)

lets say you talk with uglygirls or geeky guys, that lowers your value right? or does it not really matter and is it better to talk than ignoring them

Crap...thats a hard one...I'm going to research that one...cause its really a good question: "How to deal with lower value people?", cuase if you ignore them you might look like an ass, and if you give them too much attention you might look lower value...let me think about it for a week or two...

Hi again,

Regarding your questions...
It doesn't lower your value as long as you don't behave like them... if you keep your attitude, your body language and your facts together... as the confident, high value person YOU ALLOW YOURSELF to be... no-one can contaminate you... you can only lower your value yourself... through what you believe and make real in your mind...

Talk to them if they're friends... but pay attention to the women you really want to talk to ...

don't approach every low value in the room to get away from approach anxiety... instead approach the hottest women in the club ...

so i don't think it's a problem..

just do what you have to do and what you want to do

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