Last year in school I used to be really un talkative, not really shy, just very quite.

I'm not nearly as quite anymore around new people, but I worry about coming across as weird from being so talkative now with the people who knew me as real quite last year. I wana get to know them now and plan on talking but don't want it to be a big shock to them in a bad way, what can I do about that? These are people who I took classes with all the time but literally never talked to unless it was to do with group work.

I have no problem at ALL talking to chick or person I view as lower vallue then me. Like the "loser/druggy/nerdy" kind, I can talk, dhv, play, like hell and theyll be all over me practicaly talking about sex within minutes. but I am not at all into those kinds of girls.... However, I get pretty anxious when talking to ones who I think of equal or higher vallue because I just worry about meeting their standards, how can I change this?

fuck it, make one of your rules to treat all women with the same value.
-being more aggressive with some girls.

Eventually, this is a truth that all fat old men come to realize when they're sitting in their old people's homes staring at all the old ladies that are all equally wrinkled and aged.

Of course this is something difficult to foresee when you're in school and a sexy little 18 year old makes you spring an instant boner.

I don't have the mindset of a 70 year old guy but I definitely don't have all those mixed up emotions of an 18 year old any more and I find it much easier to approach. However . . . I miss those emotions. This is the damn truth. My heart beating 100 mph, my head swirling around with all those chemicals. . . I remember actually feeling the pulses around my temples. Then when you're lucky enough to k close, it's as if you climbed K2.

Vtech, you'll figure it out soon. . . It's just a damn game.

if the new you is more fun nobody will care