That problem is easily fixed. Get used to speaking with all kinds of people.

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There is NO secret ingredient. Theres just you.

i have/had the same problem...thats what canned material is for. its stuff that you know and can say without hesitation. but dont depend on this stuff, it should only be used as a crutch until you are comfortable with talking to HB's. yeah it is extremely frustrating. you just need to practice, practice, practice...o0o...did i mention practice. if this was easy, everyone would be a mPUA, but its not. So just have a lil (ok, maybe a lot) of patience. You will change in time.

think of it like this
there are 4.6 billion people in the world
one person isnt even .01% of the worlds population, one person is a lot less than that, probably like .00000000000001%, but thats beside the point
my point is, there are a lot of people in the world, most of them you will never see again in your life
and if you do mess up in front of them, they will most likely forget about you by the time the day is up
guarenteed they will not tell their grandkids about the strange man that asked them who lies more on day

so dont worry about it, have fun
remember one person is not anywhere close to a single percentage of the world, and they wont remember you if you mess up
but they will remenver you if your interesting, cool, calm and collected
so think ti yourself that you are all these good things

and the golden rule about the girls that reject you is
FUCK THEM, ITS THEIR LOSS
hope it helps

just think of a opener and as she talk think about the phases like transition,attraction,quailification and then comfort then your through.

you know how to talk right? give up the lines for a while and only think as far as your next step towards her. try getting out of your head and thinking of things to say and just flow. I love the "Hi or Hello" opener myself it works great and you are never unnatural. let a few sets blow up in your face and don’t let them control YOUR state. you know what to do subconsciously its just applying that and getting out of your head!