I don't know if it's in my head or if it's some deeper issues that I need to wrestle with. I go out on the weekends with the best of intentions but end up repeatedly getting scared to approach anyone. I know I'm a decent looking guy and once introduced am able to have a great interaction with anyone. However, actually approaching a cold set scares the shit out of me. It's not like I'm socially backwards or ignorant. Ive always had an attractive girlfriend, and been the alpha in the groups I hang out with. I'm always told I appear extremely confident and outgoing, but inwardly I know that when put in a sitation where I need to go pick up girls I would be absolutly petrified! I know I look confident because I know how to convey that attribute. Having it be only a front though is quit discouraging.
Someone help me to learn how to conquer this. I want to, not only for the female benifits aspect of it, but also because I want to be able to know that I have won a personal battle!!

That is called Approach Anxiety (AA) do some search about it in the forum... and specially in this section ... <p><a href="handling-overcoming-approach-anxiety-fear-vf15.html">
Handling & Overcoming Approach Anxiety/Fear</a>
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And check this post:
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Overcoming Approach Anxiety</a>
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