| Hi all, Colin here again.
It was that time of the week where I had scheduled myself to sit down and write another article for the ‘Day Game Dating’ Blog. When brain storming some topics and working through some ideas that could help the men out there reading this, I decided on TWO things. The first would be to discuss the type guy of that is MASSIVELY successful with women. The second would be to throw in a shameless plug-in for our company, just so you really understand how much thought and detail we put into our dating courses. So let’s get started!
Most Guys
There is nothing more incredible for a guy to finally develop the skill set to be able to consistently cold approach women and receive positive responses. If you really think about it, then truly this is a remarkable achievement. In my mind there are “FOUR” types of men that you see out there. The “FIRST” type of man has no confidence in his ability to approach women, and so he never acts. He will usually look at a woman from afar and spend his time wondering what could have been. The “SECOND” type has moved past his fear of approaching, as in walking up and initiating something with a woman. This is not the issue. Where he fails is with his responses. Women just don’t react well to him. These lack of positive responses prevent him from having any potential success. Then you have the “THIRD” type of guy. This guy knows how to approach women and when he does begin and interaction, the women are usually receptive to him and respond well. So over time he develops great social skills when it comes to initiating new friendships. You see even though this guy is confident and attractive to women, he simply does not go past the point where things move onto a physical level. (Again I am talking on a consistent basis.) Then you have the “FOURTH” guy, the successful and consistent guy. And this is the guy I would like to talk about.
The “Fourth” Guy
Not only is this guy confident in approaching and receiving positive responses, but he is also able to take his interactions with women and move them past the friendship zone and into, what I call ”THE LOVER ZONE.” This is the guy at the bar who after a few minutes into his approach is already physically advancing. This would usually include, hugging, dancing, grinding and kissing. From the woman’s point of view, she is clear on his intentions and happy to accept his advances. So what is it that separates guy number “four” from the rest of the pack, why is he so successful?
This is now the part of the article where the shameless self promotion comes in for Day Game Dating. It’s all worth it though as it’s important that you understand this next point. We are a company that teaches our clients the subtleties of success with women that will eventually allow you to have the same results as guy number “four”. I don’t believe that most people even recognize them and therefore can’t explain it. By the way, all our coaches are able to go live into the field and demonstrate everything taught. Once you see it, you will believe that anything is possible!!
What are some of the traits that allow for this type of success?
Well for starters, this guy knows himself, what he is about and WHY he is valuable as a man. As a part of this he recognizes that what he is offering to a woman is valuable and that she largely benefits. Operating under the assumption that both him and her will win, he becomes extremely clear with his intentions, what he wants out of the interaction and what he is willing to give in return. This allows for clarity on his part and the minimisation of pointless thinking and waisted energy. In other words, he is prepared and operating on instinct. He has purpose! This clarity and purpose removes self doubt and enables a SEDUCTIVE level of communication. Not only is this HIGHLY attractive to women, but it also allows him to take control and move things forward. He is now choosing the direction of the interaction. Women want a man that is a good communicator, but most importantly has a strong sense of self. A man who likes himself and is comfortable in his own skin. This is the essence of guy number “four”.
I have briefly described something that is common to all men who are successful with women. All our coaches exhibit these traits, but most importantly have the ability to pass on the knowledge and teach them. We are a dating coaching company that demonstrates to our clients how to go further with women and reach higher levels of success. If you have not been getting the types of women that you feel you deserve, I STRONGLY suggest you look into one of our courses.
I hope you are able to grasp the importance of becoming this “fourth” type of guy and finally get this part of your life handled.
Talk to you soon.
Colin Dubb _________________ Kelly Austin
Admin
Day Game Dating (Australia)
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